Sometimes in life we accept the love we think we deserve. At times we learn the positives ways of letting someone in by opening up your soul and core to them and them in return letting you in theirs. But what happens when you open yourself up to the wrong person thus given them the power to hurt you and in turn you accept that as love. People whether consciously or unconsciously have a pattern when they fall in love with the same traits they found in the previous relationship and wonder why it isn’t working? Why the relationship isn’t lasting?
Simple! it is because you are still accepting the love you think you deserve instead of having actual real love. Women like men need to asses themselves and change course and stop looking for the same qualities they had in previous relationships. Make your on standards and limits of what is and isn’t acceptable.
Make a list and write down what you actual want and what are your needs and how are you going to meet them with your next mate. Remember two people have to want the same thing in a relationship for it to work. Stop settling for what you think you deserve and actually demand what you need and what you want out of a relationship and make it clear in the beginning. If your not seeing your needs being met and seeing the same results as a previous like previous relationships then it’s time to call it quits. Break away from the pattern and you will see change in your dating life.