Do We Accept The Love We Think We Deserve?

Sometimes in life we accept the love we think we deserve. At times we learn the positives ways of letting someone in by opening up your soul and core to them and them in return letting you in theirs. But what happens when you open yourself up to the wrong person thus given them the power to hurt you and in turn you accept that as love. People whether consciously or unconsciously have a pattern when they fall in love with the same traits they found in the previous relationship and wonder why it isn’t working? Why the relationship isn’t lasting?

Simple! it is because you are still accepting the love you think you deserve instead of having actual real love. Women like men need to asses themselves and change course and stop looking for the same qualities they had in previous relationships. Make your on standards and limits of what is and isn’t acceptable.

Make a list and write down what you actual want and what are your needs and how are you going to meet them with your next mate. Remember two people have to want the same thing in a relationship for it to work. Stop settling for what you think you deserve and actually demand what you need and what you want out of a relationship and make it clear in the beginning. If your not seeing your needs being met and seeing the same results as a previous like previous relationships then it’s time to call it quits. Break away from the pattern and you will see change in your dating life.

Men and The Unrealistic Expectation of The Perfect Woman

Well this one is for the fellas! Men you have to stop holding on to the dream of the perfect woman she doesnโ€™t exist. You have to be realistic that women are not barbies or build a bears we are complicated creatures after all we are a different sex. Iโ€™m tired of hearing men saying โ€œIโ€™m waiting on the perfect womenโ€ well she ainโ€™t coming sweet heart itโ€™s impossible. You men have to come back down to earth and realize every woman is different and you might find some qualities and standards that your looking for but not all. Stop passing by good women just because she doesnโ€™t fit all your criteria because as soon as you want to come back guess what she has already found someone else 85% percent of the time this happens, your lucky if you find the 25% percent who is holding out their breath for you! You lucky bastard lol. In the end grow up and stop trying to find your mother! You want a partner not another mom!.

The New Rules of Dating for this Century for Women

Here are some tips for us single ladies:

Say hi to everyone even while walking if you see something that captures your eyes smile. We live in a beautiful world wake up breath in that beautiful air because being single isnโ€™t a bad thing itโ€™s actually rather good. Go out ALONE try that new restaurant or bar youโ€™ve been dying to go to and havenโ€™t because your friends are too busy or in a relationship . Enjoy your own company be happy with yourself and you will see that, that the guy you have been waiting for will appear. Now this is for my girls 23 and up looking for a guy to commit to them just have 3 requirements:
1. The man has to be college educated
2. Independent: has a career, lives on his own
3. Of course the man has to be good looking.

Stick to those 3 requirements and you will be fine donโ€™t have 50 billion standards and requirements remember Mr. Perfect doesnโ€™t exist. My final recommendation is to get on a dating website yes I know itโ€™s scary but hey it works donโ€™t knock it till you try, I have ;). Good luck ladies.

The Sexual Double Standard. I Live in the World of Samantha Jones of Sex and the City! ๐Ÿ’‹

Why are all women judged when a woman has had as many sexual partners as her male counter part. Yeah I know this story is old but I get sick and tired when men judge a woman by how many men she slept with. I live in a world where I believe it is a ok for a woman to fuck when she wants, who she wants, whenever she wants. Yes some of us women want meaningless sex and yes we wonโ€™t call you the next day. Men dislike like it when we โ€œact like a manโ€ itโ€™s not acting itโ€™s being a feminist! Stop mixing feminism for male tendencies you prick. We cannot publicize our sexual exploits itโ€™s blasphemy because dear god your called a slut for that and get a reputation but if a man does it well that makes them โ€œThe Manโ€. Thereโ€™s a sexual revolution happening and you men better prepare for it!!! ๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿ˜ฑ๐Ÿ™Œ